Ellie is now 17 months, and blossoming into a toddler. She's got a bunch of words: up, ball, bird, more, Alex, Ellie's shoes, Ma (which means "come someone" not necessarily me), ahden (which refers to a drink, mostly water), night-night, and bath. She understands a lot, and will respond with a joyful laugh when she's successfully communicated. When I bathe her and ask for a foot to wash, she will give one to me, then the other. When she's whining and I ask if she is hungry, she will laugh and nod her head with a grateful smile.
She's also figured how how a lot of things work. When she wants more food, she takes her bowl in her two hands, Oliver Twist-style, and will hold it up, saying "more?". When she is done, she will hand the bowl, then the spoon, then the stray bits of food, then the placemat to someone. When we are getting dressed, she is very helpful putting arms and legs into the holes. She likes to put on underwear, but of course she doesn't yet own any. Mine serve as necklaces, the boys' are anklets. Phil's boxers make nice hats. I do yoga every morning, and today Ellie wanted me to unroll the yoga mat on the floor for her. When I showed her how it unrolled, I thought she'd want to repeat it, but instead, she stood on the mat and did a pretty good imitation of a temple pose. I had just figured out what she was doing when she did a back bend, then got down and did an upward dog, then downward dog. I couldn't believe it. She'd gotten about half of my routine down, in the right order.
She likes to be a part of things, and assigns herself jobs. She is the official light extinguisher of the family, and she helps put wet clothes in the dryer. She is the one who closes the dishwasher door. At school she always helps wipe the tables, and she takes the chairs off of the table in the morning when she arrives. Her teachers have told us also how much she likes to help.
She's also watching the kids at school very carefully. She periodically bursts into a screaming rage when she doesn't get what she wants, but it comes and goes so quickly, and is about so very little, it seems more practice than real. She even threw herself on the floor once or twice to kick and scream. She's got a couple in her class who have tempers, so she's learning that too!
All in all, she's keeping us very busy, but she is such a joy.